Smiling, the next one is smiling, that is very attractive, men like women who smile. So this is going to also be part of going to do a discussion on goodness. And that’s going to be one of it. Reading happiness filing is another one that is really important. men find smiling a lot more attractive than I think we give it credit for us women, we think that beauty often consists in, you know, how perfect you look, your skin is perfect, and your makeups perfect. And you know, everything is the way it should be, you know, and men are actually not that picky about it, they find smiling, believe it or not, to be very beautiful. And oftentimes when they go, Oh, this woman’s prettier. Oh, she’s gorgeous. She often smiles a lot if you watch closely. So men will find that very attractive, you know, smiling and showing that joy is very feminine, you know, because again, men often are very serious because they kind of keep their feelings. I don’t want to say repressed because that has bad connotations. But men’s feelings are not quite as close to the surface as women’s, our, you know, we easily access our feelings in a way that’s different for men. And that means that our feelings of joy are often right there. And then we smile a lot, you know, now some of you may be naturally more quiet, you know, and maybe this is like, well, I don’t want to smile and look like an idiot. You know, you know, obviously, everything should be tailored to your personality. I tend to be a pretty serious person. I actually don’t smile a lot and that’s something I need to work on.

But smiling is very, very important. You know, and I remember I once read a book, there was a model in the 90s Cindy Crawford and she made this whole book on makeup, you know I’m into makeup and when I was like late teens, you know, I was like 1819 maybe like 16 to 19 I was really into like makeup and studying makeup and stuff. And I had a book on makeup from Cindy Crawford. And she talked about all the different types of makeup that you need to do a complete face, you know, so she’d have a couple of pages on lipstick and then she’d have one on blush, and then she’d have one on eyeshadow or one on mascara. And it was a very fascinating book, it was called Cindy Crawford’s basic face. And I liked that book but she said I believe it’s a page at the end of the book to kind of finish it all off. She said if all else fails, smile, and that is something I want you to remember. You know, no matter what you do to try and be attractive, you know you can work on your voice you can work on your looks your outfit, you know some of the other qualities here you know your character you know things like that. You can have a little bit of you know, self-respect and put guys in their place when they need it. But you know, if you’re in a situation and you don’t know what to do pay attention to what someone says. And when it’s appropriate smile, smiling covers a multitude of sins so to speak. So if you messed up your makeup smile, it’s like she said you know when all else fails to smile and you know another story to kind of illustrate the effect of smiling on men. is I don’t know if where you’re watching this but in the US we have a lingerie brand called Victoria’s Secret. And they used to do like a fashion show every I think it was like every year every season. And these women would walk up and down the runway, basically in their underwear. They showed it during primetime It was not good. They ended up taking it off the air and I’m glad they took it off the air that wasn’t really appropriate for like family viewing. But you know, these women you know, they’re very beautiful women. And one girl told a story I don’t remember where I heard the story. Maybe I read it in a book somewhere. And her boyfriend was sitting on the couch watching this fashion show.

And she noticed that her boyfriend kept saying the same thing almost robotically, like he wasn’t noticing, you know, paying attention to what he said. But she said every time there was one model again, these are all beautiful women, they are literally in their underwear. You know very skinny fit, you know, very attractive women in beautiful lingerie you know Victoria’s Secret. I don’t know they saw their laundry is very beautiful. So you know, beautiful women parading around in their underwear. You know this guy is watching this, and you know what he says? She said, every time, the name of this model was Heidi Klum. And she was walking up and down the runway. And her boyfriend was kind of like, absent-mindedly every time it was her turn to walk down the runway, he would sit there and stare cuz she’s like smiling, you know, prating, up and down. And he goes, Oh, there’s Heidi Klum. I like Heidi Klum.

She’s smiling. And then you know, she should turn around, walk back, the next models would come out. And then you know, in the back, they, you know, put on a different set of lingerie. And then she’d come down and model that. And then you go, oh, there’s Heidi Klum. Again, I like Heidi Klum. She’s smiling. And then and he said this, like she said, he said this like three times like, oh, there’s Heidi Klum. I like Heidi Klum. She’s smiling. And then you know, and she thought that was funny. But again, it just goes to show that, you know, this guy is watching a bunch of beautiful women. They’re all in their underwear. And what does he do? He notices the woman that’s smiling. And again, a smile is a very powerful, attractive, if you might say to men, you know, they like women that smile, when they pick a woman they want to spend their life with they want you know, happy women who are smiling, you know, to be like their, their life companion. You know, men want a happy woman, you know, you know why we’ll get into this on the part the video on understands men, but psychologically men associate a woman’s happiness with himself and his abilities.

So if you’re happy, a guy feels like oh, okay, I must be doing okay, because she’s happy. You know, that’s why men like women that smile and are happy because it’s inviting. They feel like we approve of them. They feel like we’d like them. You know, it makes men feel wanted and appreciated. You know, men like it when women smile, it puts them at ease, you know, it makes them feel welcome. Because men are usually very intimidated by women. They will put on a big show and they will act like everything’s okay, because that’s how men are. But you know, when a woman smiles, it kind of helps the guy kind of it breaks the ice, let’s say And so yeah, men love a woman that smiles as evidenced by that thing and her boyfriend was just absent-mindedly saying it, you know, it wasn’t something she said it was funny because it was funny how repetitive and absent-minded it was. But again, you know, men appreciate a woman who smiles, and again, you know, you don’t want to smile at the wrong time. You know, and like, look like an idiot, you know, smile when you feel like it’s genuine, you know, you want it to be a genuine smile, and it doesn’t have to be like a huge t toothy grin, you know, you can smirk or whatever. But just in general, always remember that if you want to be attracted to men, smile, smiling is important.