Hey there!

I’m a married, Catholic woman who adheres to the teachings of the Church and is a huge Aquinas geek. (But with a channel name like mine, I’m guessing you already knew that? 😉

I started making Youtube videos because for over fifteen years (yeah I started young, hehe), I’ve been on a journey. I wanted to figure out what it meant to be a TRUE…HAPPY…FEMININE…WOMAN. In and of herself-no man or kids required. 

Throughout all the twists and turns of my life, there is one thing that has always kept me going-I was obsessed about finding out what God meant for us women to be AS WOMEN. Not just as a wife or mother (although that is a very beautiful and sublime mystery of who we are), but simply as the creatures He made us to be. I constantly noticed the modern lies and feminist teachings in the world around me, and I always wondered..”Ok, I know that’s wrong, what’s RIGHT instead?” I instinctively knew it was about more than lipstick and heels, or swishy skirts.

You may wonder where this “obsession” came from. It started in childhood. Unlike most girls, I did not have a mother. No she didn’t die-she was mentally ill. Severely. When I graduated high school I decided I needed to know what it meant to be a woman. I had no role model-my own femininity was like a huge void. I mean, I knew all these bizarre things NOT to do. And I knew looking at the world’s views on what women should be and do were wrong, so no help there. So I turned to the only mother I’ve ever really had-Holy Mother the Church, and in particular, Thomistic philosophy. I knew the answer would be there-there’s an answer for everything else! 🙂

I’ve spent more than fifteen years of researching and intense prayer, and I’m sure I’ll spend the next fifteen doing the same thing. This is a topic I’ll never tire of exploring, and I’ve found many answers to the riddles we women are constantly faced with. I want to share these answers with you in the hopes that if you understand more deeply what you were created to be, with or without a man, then it will help you live your single (or married) life less painfully and more joyfully. I hope you’ll allow me to do that.

Sincerely,

"Not everything that is more difficult is more meritorious." - St. Thomas Aquinas